I’ve been back in the UK now for a few months, and have had time to reflect on my experiences. My six weeks in Mek’ele were amazing, I saw so much in such a short time. The school I worked with was a fantastic institution, and was really making a difference to the lives of many young people in the city. It was a pleasure and a privilege to be a part of the team for a while. Ethiopian culture was fascinating, and the majority of people were warm and friendly (especially when it came to discussing English football).
I can’t finish my blog off without writing about the students at the school. Many of them became my friends by the end of the experience, we had lots of fun which more than drowned out the memories I have of getting frustrated with their cheating/lateness for class (what a hard teacher I was!). The lives of my students were at times both inspiring and depressing, but I glad to say that I felt the former more than the latter. However, there was one student who faced a difficult and life-changing experience in my final week…
The Case of Tekeste: Tekeste was one of the top students in my class, a 13-year old who works hard and is always well behaved. He is quite small (probably a result of not getting enough food whilst growing up) and so he gets teased by his fellow students. I liked him a lot, it was a pleasure to have him in my class. However, he wasn’t present during my last week of school. I was naturally worried as to why he hadn’t been turning up, so I asked his fellow students and the social workers at the school. What had happened soon became apparent – Tekeste’s mother had died of an illness that week.
Whilst this is enough for most young people to have to deal with, this also meant that Tekeste’s future had been dramatically changed. Tekeste does not have any other adult relatives (his father had died previously), and so he was now the oldest in his family. As such, he had the prime role of looking after his four other brothers and sisters. He now had to be the bread-winner, and would have to give up school to work/beg on the streets. Tekeste also had to deal with the fact that he and his siblings no longer had a home – Tekeste’s mother had been paying rent on a small shack, but now there was no money coming in for the accommodation. In the space of a few days Tekeste’s slow but positive climb out of a life of poverty was cut dramatically short. He had gone from receiving a relatively good education and having dreams of becoming a doctor, to having to go back to living and working on the streets.
This is a prime example of just how fragile someone’s escape from poverty can be. It is also an example of the poverty trap – the main reason why Tekeste’s mother was sick was that she was poor. The main reason she couldn’t get the medicines she needed was that she was poor. These barriers to an individual’s development are significant, and a real injustice. It’s a real reminder for me to keep pushing for greater assistance to those in need, and spread the word about what I saw with those back home. On that note…
Life back in the UK: After several days stuck in a hotel waiting to leave Ethiopia, I have to admit that it was great to final make my way back to London Heathrow. However, the difference between life for Ethiopians and for the people who live in my home city of Winchester really hit home. The vast array of items in the shops, the children leaving food just lying around – all normal things to see, but a bit more poignant considering what I had just experienced. It was also a bit depressing to hear what people were talking about (which celebrity has just broken up with her boyfriend, which TV programme they had just watched, etc) – now that I was back in the UK I could fully understand what people were saying, but often I wish I couldn’t!
A particularly bizarre experience was going to an Ethiopian restaurant in London. I ordered the staple food of pancake with lentil sauce (injera and shiro). Whilst the immediate shock was the price (£8 compared to the local Ethiopian price of around 30p), it was perhaps the strangeness of eating such food in the settings of a London restaurant that really seemed strange – a “world away” from what I had experienced.
I hope I’ll keep in contact with some of the sisters and staff at the school, I remember them and the students very fondly. I have no real idea of what the future holds for them, but the certainty is that they will all continue to face many challenges in their lives. I’ll keep them all in my thoughts and prayers, and maybe someday I will see them again – I would certainly like that… Anyway, that rounds off my weblog. I hope that you’ve enjoyed it, and that you’ve found some of the things I’ve written of interest. If you’ve got any questions or would like to contact me please feel free to send an email to schliner[at]talk21.com.
Lots of love and best wishes to you all, take care of yourselves,
Robert